home?

We moved here when I was 8. We moved to 2 hours away when I was 11. Then another hour away at 12ish. Then I moved with a family member at 13.  Then back here again and for good.

At 11 when we moved. Sister had already moved out on her own even though she was 13. She found friends that took her in and all was good..........
We lived in a tent, then a camper in someone's yard  then we moved 'home' again.

At 13 I moved in with a family member. Mom amd her husband had split for now I figure as they always went back and she still drank constantly.  I was certain this was it  stability, comfort, discipline, love.
What I got was not any of that. I learned what pot was. I learned girls are inferior and men were the bosses  I learned again that men liked to touch girls.....
So, I guess it is normal for a man/father figures to touch the girls.

I was 13 and hugely crushing on family members boyfriend. He lived there also he was so fucking nice. Always there for me  and always touching me. It became pretty intense sexualy. As far as possible without actual sex.
I thought for sure he had to love me. why else would he want me so much. This continued the entire year I lived there. daily, I would get up with him in the morning, run to the store with him, we did anything possible to be alone.

Yeah........I moved back 'home' at the end of 8th grade year.
Started to figure shit out  mom had kept her for sure promise of no ex huz coming back. she still drank more than should be possible.
So, as I realize these 'men' touching me was not normal and so fucking wrong
I tell mom about ex huz  3 years of it from him. A small child. Being told this is what daddy's do. Dont tell or I will hurt your mom and sister...she says I must have misunderstood. he never would have done that. So, again someone else is chosen over me in moms eyes. How the hell can she not believe me. He is gone and still running her. she asks why I never told her before. Why wait so long. Hes been gone a year. wow. ok. I guess thats that........  thanks mom..

Then, I decide I should call family member and tell her about her boyfriend. nope not possible he is a god fearing man. He loves her  he would never touch a child. I must be so fucked up I made all this up for attention.....

Well alrighty then. anyone else want to dismiss me......

Uh yeah